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How to Tell if a Guy Wants to be More than Friends

How to Tell if a Guy Wants to be More than Friends



It's hard to tell whether your best bud now wants to take it to the next level and begin the romantic steps. After all, he may just be one of those guys that would give a stranger the shirt off his back. There are signals and you can identify them if you know what they are.

If he's willing to go the extra mile and help you in any way you ask, that could be just a great friend. However, if your guy pal suddenly finds new ways to help and, of course, these ways mean he'll be spending more time with you, then it might be love.

Your guy probably wants to take the relationship to the next level if you find he starts enjoying every hobby or interest you have. Normally this means he just wants to be close and might even take up dancercise, ballet or go to the spa with you for a few extra minutes of your time. Maybe he won't participate; maybe he'll just drop you off and wait. Either way, he's crazy about you.




Look into his eyes the next time the two of you are together. The pupils in the eyes dilate when someone is excited. Poker players wear sunglasses at the tables to hide this tell. Watch for subtle changes in his pupils when you get close to him, put your arm around his shoulders or brush up against him.

A man in love, not a friend will shower the object of his affection with gifts. They don't have to be big. In fact, the most significant gifts are things you happen to mention in conversation. If you mentioned you love a specific type of granola bar but can't find them any more and the next day he shows up with a box, your buddy wants more. Even though the cost wasn't significant, the time he spent finding them was.

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