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Are you frustrated with Internet Dating? Here are 5 ways you can meet the perfect Kenyan lady, your life partner without having to go through the frustrations of Online Dating.

Although online dating has opened the doors for couples to meet more easily, many people are getting sick of the online games and seek out new ways to get that boyfriend or girlfriend they have been looking for all along.

While there are a number of matchmaking sites that boast people finding relationships that turn into marriage or a life partner, others are simply about sex and have caused happy marriages to end in divorce. Studies have shown that online dating is leaving people more disillusioned more than ever before. That is why more people are turning their backs on online dating and looking for better ways of making connections.

The most common complaint is that people can't find individuals that they have chemistry with, and this trend makes perfect sense. If you are using a computer to find the love of your life, “perfect Kenyan lady” you’ve been dreaming all along, then you are in for disappointments.



But before we discourage you let us explore the ups and downs to internet dating, and try to explain why most people find online dating to be a headache and remain single because of it. We will suggest alternatives you may want to venture into in order to find the person that becomes your life partner, or at most a boyfriend or girlfriend without the need for matchmaking and casual sex sites.

5 Best Reasons to Use Online Dating to find the perfect Kenyan lady

  1. It leaves you in control
  2. You are able to reach more Kenyan ladies looking for relationships
  3. It is less expensive than traditional dating
  4. You can sort through profiles of Kenyan girls more quickly
  5. You don't give out too much information about who you are

5 Downsides to Internet Dating when searching for the perfect Kenyan lady

  1. Complacency
  2. There are a number of choices that can be overwhelming at times
  3. Lets you “shop for your Kenyan lady” instead of learn how to seduce her
  4. An abundance of fake information that only wastes your precious time
  5. A number of game players, predators. Cheaters and all kind of spam

The Internet, Chemistry, and the Law of Attraction

In modern time people have started to rely on their computer too much and some have high expectations that the internet will deliver their soul mate to them. This is in part, a Fairytale trap.

Now don’t get me wrong, the internet is a great tool when it is used wisely, but it isn't the best method for you to try and find your ideal Kenyan Lady or soul mate. Now, here is why I say so, the reasons why the internet is flawed for most singles is that the Law of Attraction and chemistry are still vital and cannot be handled through the internet.

Chemistry is the most important part of a relationship. Everyone yearns to find a partner that they believe they have a good chemistry with and a relationship would be unimaginable if that was missing.

Part of the dating experience is the quagmire of tying to balance your heart with your head. There must be both chemistry and attraction in order for a couple to experience true love. Chemistry is what is given to us to help find our perfect love, and you use these requirements when you select a yes or no answer. On the same token, the law of attraction is something you cannot escape and will either work for or against you.

If you are too busy or shy, the internet is your only way of reaching possible partners, and in a way you are hiding behind that computer, so the law of attraction cannot work in your favor. Why, because the law of attraction works in such a way as to get you attracted to people who are like you.

Over the years it has been proven this is a powerful law, and it is like gravity. You can never change the like attracts like theory. If you hide behind the computer, think about the types of people and relationships you will actually attract to you.

Five Ways to Hook up with a Kenyan Lady and Soul Mate - No Computer Required

  • Use your support community

A number of people find their soul mate in the group of people they know, and you don't have to trap yourself in an odd date. Have your friends, family and even people at work help you to meet a Kenyan lady they know who might find you attractive.

  • Start a dating pool or networking group

Take the time to build a singles group and support each other as you look for the best partners. Many singles know a number of single people, and just because they didn't have a match with someone, doesn't mean that person won't be a match for you. This is a great way to head toward matchmaking.

  • Reach out to other people

In modern times, cell phones, texting, instant messaging and even e-mail we are always finding people to interact with and we have lost the art of engagement with real people standing in front of you. When you make an effort to head out and talk to people you have contact with you can see your own relationship start to blossom.

  • Take the Time to Make More Friends

You should know that you are more likely to meet the perfect Kenyan lady you’ve been dreaming ofthrough a person you know, so be open to making new friends that expand past your current set of friends. You might have an acquaintance somewhere who you would enjoy spending time with. Friends are easier to find than dates, and they last longer than some relationships.

  • Get involved In Your Town

Many people who are single spend too much time at home and work while meeting with only a couple of friends. When you meet with people in clubs, charities, church and other places you bring up the game in the Laws of Attraction that will help you find your soul mate. You can meet new friends, enjoy your hobbies and find others that are similar to you.

  • Balancing High Tech with High Touch

Technology has helped in a number of ways, and since we are very social, and your life partner is a long term relationship goal that can be achieved, you need to set time off to get away from your computer and enjoy the world around you made of real people in a real setting.

As the old Roman saying by Terence the playwright goes, Moderation in all things.

You might as well assume that the same applies to the internet as well. Now I leave the ball in your hands, you should address this trend, be careful and act wisely and refrain from being bogged down with all the fun fare about the magic of the internet that is trying to convince us amongst other things that online dating it is the only method possible to get you hooked up with your perfect Kenyan lady and soul of your life.

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